I'm so lost....

I feel so far away from you...

God if only I wasn't human or unworthy maybe just maybe my focus would be completely on you and not on the needs of my flesh or the desires of this world....

How do I find you when I turned so far away....

When my mind is clouded and my life is dark....

What can I give in exchange for the thorns in my flesh or what can I give to You to never hurt you again....

Is it possible to never ever lose my way....

How do you find your way back to God?

Someone help me please......

So we asked the question why do men cheat so now here is the question why do women cheat? What are their reasons behind cheating? Why do they do it? And are they better at cheating then men are?

Come on you let me know?

I have a simple answer to this question: The reason why men cheat is not because it is in their nature or that they are sex maniacs, no they cheat because they're allowed to. Plain and simple. Yes it is wrong, yeah you shouldn't break your promises, yeah keep your thing in your pants; all of that is true, but honestly like a lot of things in life if men weren't allowed to cheat, they wouldn't. I could give a whole list of biological or psychological reasons to why men cheat, but the answer really lies in that they are allowed to. I'm not down playing cheating, nor am I taking the responsibility off of men who cheat: Wrong is wrong and right is right, but honestly it all dates back to when women (married women) would allow their man to cheat and be OK with it as long as he didn't bring it home. And then you had women that said it's OK for you to sleep around just as long as you are honest with me and you tell me about the indiscretion.

Finally you take them back time and time again. I'm all for forgiveness and moving forward, but if you are with a man who cheated on his woman to be with you, what makes you think he's not going or isn't capable of doing the same to you? Or you see the signs and choose to ignore them. Whatever it is if ladies stop allowing it or stop being apart of it men (in my opinion) wouldn't cheat. That's just what I think. You let me know....

Why is sex so powerful? Well that is a good question and you are about to get an opinion not factual, but an opinion from a person who has allowed to be a very sex powerful influence in his life. There are four main reasons that I believe sex is so powerful in our lives:

1.) It is more Spiritual and Emotional than Physical.

2.) It is Everywhere and it is Hyped up.

3.) It is Presented as Evil and Wrong.

4.) We Allow It To Be Powerful.

So those are the four main reasons I believe sex is so power. The reason why I believe that it is more spiritual and emotional than physical, and that's because sex was created by a Spiritual Being. God created sex!!! He made it to be a powerful, amazing, and wonderful experience. He didn't intend for it to be perverted, or for us to feel guilt and shame for wanting or enjoying sex, but He also created it for people to experience it under certain conditions. Further more It's easy for us to say that it is more physical because we are mainly physical beings, but if you think about the experience you'll be able to see that there is something more going on that just the in and out motions, moaning, screaming, sweating; if we look closer we'll see that it transforms you, the way you think, the way you feel, your perceptions, your thoughts, your fantasies, your imagination, and it does that way after sexual intercourse has happened. All those non-physical things I named we honestly have no control over, or no real influence over. They are ever changing and that's because I believe their is something spiritual going on. Sex was created by a Spiritual Being so why wouldn't any spiritual stuff be exchanged during sex? Everyone thinks that sex can just be casual and physical, but I feel that that's a delusion and that more than just physical stuff happens and that's why I also believe that we crave more and more of it. And why there really is so many people taking such a beautiful and amazing experience and turning it evil. Why people's lives are being destroyed by something that's supposed to enhance life and bring joy. That's just my feelings on it.

It's Everywhere and It's Hyped up. Sex my good people is everywhere. Sex sales, it is watched, it is recorded, it is online, on TV, in magazines, in commercials, in your car, in your dreams, in everyday life; yes sex is so powerful because it is everywhere and it is hyped up. Your parents tried to hide it from you, your friends talked about it, the church shy away from talking about it; even in marriage ministries they don't discuss it; thinking that if you avoid it or don't talk about it, it will lose it's power, but not realizing that not talking about it gives it just as much power!!! It's a spiritual, emotional, and physically powerful experience and if you don't tell the truth about it...then people will turn to the people or devices that will. IT IS EVERYWHERE SO WHY NOT GIVE THE RIGHT FACTS ABOUT IT???

I kind of said my third point in the paragraph above. They make sex evil and wrong, and that just makes people all the more curious. Its so bad that we even make safe sex evil and wrong...and notice that people do the opposite of safe sex. I'm just saying; whether you believe sex is for married couples only, celibacy and abstinence is the answer, or you're a person who freely expresses their sexual nature; be safe!!! STD's and STI's, AIDS, HIV, and DEATH is real!!! Sex is not evil, nor should guilt and shame be attached to it; as long as it is done within the guidelines God has set for them. (Again this is my opinion) So whatever we decide to do, just be safe and use wisdom.

Finally we allow it to be powerful in our lives. Honestly we allow it to be powerful in our lives. And that's because we hear so much about it, but no one talks about how to not let it consume you or control you. We just walk around being devoured and corrupting something that is meant to be beautiful and blessed.

Sex is so powerful because we allow it.

What is communication?


•“Communication is at the heart of intimate human relationships, it is literally the foundation on which all else is built,” David H. Olson.


•Olson and Defrain describes communication as being the way “humans create and share meaning, but verbally and non-verbally,” (p.106)

Communication is needed to gain an understanding and knowledge of the wants, the needs, and the desires of another person.


Communication is needed in order for the other person to gain an understanding and knowledge of your wants, your needs, and your desires.


Positive
Communication:

ØSharing feelings
ØGiving compliments
ØAvoiding blame
ØBeing able to compromise


Positive listening skills involve empathy and giving feedback

Speaking skills include speaking for oneself instead of speaking for others


Effective Communication takes practice!

Effective Communication is putting forth the work to be solution-focused, rather than placing blame!


Effective Communication is not just interpersonal, but intrapersonal as well!


Effective Communication makes everyone a winner!


Assertive communication- involves the expression of thoughts, feelings, and desires as one’s right as an individual. (You Want To Be An Assertive Communicator)

Passive communication- is characterized by an unwillingness to say what one thinks, feels, or wants.


Aggressive Communication- aims to hurt or put down another person and to protect the self-esteem of the aggressor.


Positive and Negative Communication Cycles- Olson & Defrain


Positive Cycle:
Assertiveness- is a person’s ability to express his or her feelings and desires to a partner.

Self-confidence- is a measure of how a person feels about themselves and the ability to control things in their life.

Assertiveness = Self-confidence

Negative Cycle:

Avoidance- is a person’s tendency to minimize issues and a reluctance to deal with issues directly.

Partner Dominance- is the degree to which a person feels his or her partner tries to be controlling and dominant in their relationship.


Avoidance = Partner Dominance


Refuse to fight dirty.

Resist giving the silent treatment.

Focus on the issue and focus on the present.


Call “time out” and “foul”

Use humor and comic relief.


Always go for closure.

Don't Ignore

Learn to forgive and to let go.

I need to practice this...it's hard to do things the right way, but right is right and wrong is wrong.


Dating PTSD you can overcome it...

I know no one said life would be easy, but can it not be so complicated?

There are somethings that can be avoided if we just look outside of our own way of thinking and see someone else's point-of-view.

I know that I cause a lot of the strife that has come my way, simply because I just wanted things to go my way. HA- I'm learning that things never will go your way; no life is definitely a kid with a magnifying glass and we are the ants.

I know I know that I can't get people to think the way I think, but sometimes I just wish that we were mind readers so we could know what to say or how not to say certain things.

I wish that all the people in the world weren't aggressive type communicators or avoidance type communicators, but that we all were assertive communicators; who weren't looking to win the argument or make the other person seem small, but trying to clearly state the problem, clarify feelings, and come up with a solution, forgive and move on....but that's just to hard to do isn't it? It doesn't keep things spicy right? We humans get a jolt out of confusion and drama, like some sick turn on right?

I know I know I know I know I know, but still isn't it nice to dream????

If You Like It Then You Should Have Put A Ring On It (Salvation That Is)

Key Scriptures:Romans 5:7-8: 7For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 8But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. (Unconditional Love)John 3:16: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. (Giving)

Subject: If You Liked It Then You Should Have Put A Ring On It.So I know that some of you are wondering, “why in the world is the title of his topic, the chorus for that new Beyonce’ song.” Well let me bring a cure for your curiosity. Besides it being one of the greatest videos made for a man. Let me just be clear, Beyonce made this video for men and believe me I know I’m not the only man that thinks so. Now it has a message of empowerment to women and a warning to men, but to get the man’s undivided attention Beyonce is anything less than subtle. She shows us what we want to see, but she makes it very clear that if you liked it you should have put a ring on it. Signifying that; all of this could have been yours (whoever the idiot that let her go was) just by making a commitment.So I took a queue from Beyonce and put it into a spiritual perspective; I feel that God is looking for us (whether you’re a sinner, or a Christian) to commit to being in a relationship with Him. And like Beyonce has done in her video, God is laying everything out on the table or in other words; through the scriptures I will share, God is saying if you like what you hear, if you want the blessings I will give to you, and if you want me to make you whole and for heaven to be your home, than you have to put a ring (commit to me, make a promise) on it.

So what should someone interested in being in a relationship with you bring to the table?God brings (Unconditional Love to the Table) - Romans 5:7-8. Now isn’t that amazing that God; despite our past, loves us enough to not care about where we’ve been, how mean we are, how much money we make, how good our grades are, if our shoes are new, fresh hair cut or hair do, smelling all nice, no God accepts us for who we are and even while we were in sin Christ died for us.

God is a GIVER- (John 3:16) - How many people have encountered someone in a relationship who was selfish? They want it their way or no way at all. So why are we not able to commit to the One who was willing to give His only Son to die for us? Oh we can commit to Lisa or to Bobby; who puts us down and only takes from us, and we will try everything in our power to make the relationship work; hoping that they will change. If you like what God is bringing to the relationship you better put a ring on it.

God is a LISTENER- Psalm 6:9- 9The LORD hath heard my supplication; the LORD will receive my prayer. OK who in this room wants someone to listen to them? To ask you how your day is going and actually sit down and listen to you talk about your day? Well God will do just that and more. He is not only willing to listen to whatever you have to say, but he is willing to do something with the information. He takes action.Are you still not convinced to make a promise to a fulfilling relationship with God? Ok I will give you some more reasons why you need to put a ring on it.

God is FAITHFUL And FORGIVING-I John 1:9- 9If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (Do I need to even go into wanting to be in a relationship where you know you both will be faithful?) If you still don’t like it and won’t put a ring on it. God is still willing to be faithful even when were unfaithful to Him.Shoot if you won’t put a ring on this relationship let me talk to someone that will.

God is a PROVIDER- John 14:2- In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. He’s going to provide a personalized mansion for you. (Forget living in an apartment or a house, God’s got it so good and loves us so much He is building a mansion just for you) Still don’t want to commit ok how about this.Philippians 4:19- 19But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.Please if you like it then please put a ring on it. See some people don’t have any standards, so this kind of relationship won’t appeal to everybody, but for those of us that understand you’re not going to easily find a man or a woman to do all of this and still tolerate our imperfections, to deal with us when we’re not in the best of moods, to take care us when we are sick, to help pay our bills, oh somebody is feeling me up in here.

God is a PROTECTOR- Psalm 91:1-2 1He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. 2I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust. Psalm 3:3- But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me; my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.If you like it then put a ring on it.

Finally God brings EMOTIONS- God has emotions that he expresses. He gets happy, he gets sad, but He also gets jealous. No for real God is so passionate about us, He is passionate about us spending time with Him; that when we put other people first, when we love our materials more, we love our money more, our TV shows, our jobs, or we put other gods before Him; He gets jealous. Exodus 20:5- Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the LORD thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me.So maybe I still haven’t convinced you that being in a committed relationship with God is worth it; study these scriptures I’ve given you and see for yourself whether or not God is the perfect choice.But please don’t wait until it is too late for you to make the decision to choose Christ. You really don’t want to be caught in heaven without making a commitment to follow Christ and God saying “If you liked it you should have put a ring on it,”

Get Saved Today...

I know I have another post to write a response to: (Why Is Sex So Powerful?), but I needed to ask this as well. Why do you believe that men cheat? What is the motivation behind it? Is it a need, desire, or selfishness?



You tell me...Please I want to hear what you have to say:



And then after some good discussion/comments from you guys (THE READERS) I will post my opinion on Why do men cheat?



Happy Commenting



jwriter

This is a question I've been asking myself for years... haven't found the answer yet.

A linear graph can be created to depict the spectrum of peoples views on sex:

Point A----------------------------------middle point--------------------------------Point Z

Point A: People who feel sex is just for procreation,

Middle point : sex is a mixture pleasure/emotions/commitment,

Point Z: Sex is powerful, amazing, and shouldn't be jumped into lightly

And in between those points you have people with many different point of views. How ever you describe or feel about sex... the fact (in my opinion) is that it holds some power over us as humans (if it didn't it wouldn't be such a big deal, there wouldn't be so many rules about it, variations, taboos, all in the media, sex wouldn't sell, and people we wouldn't have a problem with God's view of sex and his laws towards sex and sexuality, or we wouldn't have peoples lives destroyed over sex, sex addicts, or STI's, AIDS, etc....all the mess that comes from the power of sex....

Well I believe that sex holds a lot of power over us, whether we live in the delusions of one night stands and sex just being sex (still has power over you ha), or if we believe that sex is for marriage and is sacred (still has power over you, but its blessed I believe in a marriage), or if you have dedicated your life to a vow of chastity or no sex ever (well to you people I throw my hat off to you), but whatever it is...you tell me if sex has so much power...and try to be intellectual people.

Thanks

jwriter

No one said that life would be easy...but someone could have prepared me for it a little better LOL!!!

Life doesn't care what it throws at you and it doesn't let up...

If it wasn't for Christ being My Lord and Savior, Life would have took me down a long time ago.

Life vs jwriter= DEATH 4 Jwriter

Life vs jwriter+Jesus= VICTORY 4 Jwriter, but it still doesn't equal things won't be hard or trouble won't come my way, but you can overcome knowing that VICTORY and Eternal Life will be your REWARD!!!

Just because...

Sometimes I just feel like I don't deserve to even be alive. (Don't get me wrong I'm not suicidal or anything), but I often wonder why God values my life (me with all my imperfections, sinful thoughts, sinful actions, and all the times I've hurt Him), I wonder why He valued me enough to die on the cross for my sins. He knew and knows all the times I will hurt Him and break his heart, but yet He keeps me alive, He wakes me up everyday, He blesses me with friends and loved ones that I don't deserve, and He has kept me all these years. I'm so unworthy of His love.

Everyone has this perception of me, that I'm going to be some great person or a great man, but the truth is deep down; I'm a sinner pure and simple, no doubt about it. I count myself as an honest, transparent person, but at the same time I lie to myself and I wear a mask. I've been unhappy with myself for a long time, unhappy about my family situation, unhappy that I'm so envious of others, envious of the world, envious of evildoers, and so consumed what everyone else is doing that I completely turn my back on God and the standards that He has set for me.

There is a darkness in my mind, a black hole that I try to keep locked away, but it is slowly consuming me and I'm afraid that I don't want to stop it. Sometimes I get so tired of doing things the right way that I'm willing to compromise my integrity and my life. I get so tired of trying to live up to the standards, the thoughts, the wishes, and every prophecy that people place on me, that I rather do the opposite of what they think of me; what they want from me.

This is the part of me I try to keep hidden behind a laugh, a shout, keeping myself surrounded by positive people, consuming myself in work, keeping busy, being there for my friends, but the truth is that it only places a bandage on the deep, crimson, festering, putrid, and decaying wound that is slowly giving birth to a dark being that I'm afraid of. I'm afraid of it, but I tired of trying to contain it.

Hopefully while your reading this you're not thinking I'm crazy, but that you would be empathic and see that you too have a dark void you're constantly fighting to contain or keep hidden. (See look at me even on my own blog I'm concerned what people think about me).

I'm trying to learn to love myself even more than I do, to truly walk with God, to truly live up to His standards and not parade myself around as though I am, to truly learn to Live for Him, and Follow His commands, to walk in purpose, and to love my enemies. I wish I could be like some who sin and fall short and it doesn't phase them, it isn't on their mind, or eats at their conscience; unfortunately for me it kills me and eats me alive and I walk around feeling like I'm not only a disappointment to God, but a disappointment to everyone that looks up to me. The more I think the worse I become.

The darkness........

Romans 5:6-8-- For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Romans 5:6-8-- For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

You do realize what this means right js, blogger world, fellow bloggers, sinners, people alike?

Romans 5:6-8-- For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Today is the anniversary of when Christ Jesus decided to die for you and me.

Romans 5:6-8-- For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Can you believe it? Can you fathom this? Would you have done the same?

For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die.

I mean look at the statement above...this is so true...who are we willing to die for? I mean seriously who are we really willing to lay down our lives for? It makes a little bit of sense to die for good people if the need a rises, but I'm not even going to throw myself out there and say I would right off...and it would be rare for us a humans to even say we would die for someone,

But here is the cliffhanger, the riddle, the puzzle, the confusion...

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

This I can't even understand...I believe it...but I still don't understand it...The God of the universe, the sovereign King, the Savior, The Christ, God in Human Form, he made the decision to die for sinners, evil men and women, babykillers, fornicators, liars, prostitutes, murderers, people that serve other gods, rapists, backbiters, backstabbers, adulterers, serial killers, heterosexuals, homosexuals, lesbians, Black, White, Spanish, Asian, Indian, tax collectors, and everything that is dirty and evil about ME--the author of this blog, he died for us??? He died for man...no matter what our vice, our sins, our weaknesses, our sexual orientation, our lusts, our desires, our skin color, he did all this for us.....WHILE WE WERE YET SINNERS...CHRIST DIED FOR US?

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

I am saved, I believe in Jesus Christ, but I still sin, I still struggle with sin, but He still died for me...He still loves me...I don't have to live in guilt and shame because he died for me...I feel so bad when I mess up because he died for me, but God still Loves me and he died for me.

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Today is Good Friday and if you don't know Christ...All you have to do is accept Him, Believe in Him, And Confess that He is Lord.

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

You only have to confess with your mouth and believe in your Heart that Jesus is Lord and you're SAVED...It really is that Easy!!!

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Confess that you are a sinner, ask Christ to cleanse and forgive you, believe that he is the SON OF GOD, and you ask him to Come Into Your Heart and Be Your Lord and Savior!!!

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord Shall Be Saved...Joel 2:32

But God Commendeth his love towards us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Mark 16:16

John 13:16-17

Acts 16:30

Ephesians 2:5

Matthew 16:25

John 12:47

Think about accepting Christ...He Loves You!!!!

All I do is think of you.

And if I wasn't so sure I was already crazy, I would be worried about this, and wanting to figure out how this happened.

All I do is think of you.

I just can't believe that I can feel this way about someone again. I told myself that I wouldn't let my guard down, that no woman could appreciate me the way I should be, that if I opened myself up to this again I would be hurt, but realized that I've only gave my heart to woman not on my level; to women that weren't ready to be women at all. You're different.

All I do is think of you.

I wish this wasn't a dream and I would wake up and you would be my reality...

All I do is think of you.........

I think of you and I smile...

I just sit around and I think about you...I'm smiling right now as I type this.

I dream of you and sometimes the dream is just about us holding hands...and I smile.

I think of the things you say...and I smile.

I think about your favorite song...and I wish that it really was mine...and I smile because only you will get that.

I think about the song that reminds me of how good we treat each other...It must be the way....and I smile.

I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I smile I SMILE I SMILE I SMILE I SMILE I SMILE I SMILE i smile i smile i smile i smile I smile.

I smile and I think of you.... Are you smiling???

I think one of the most detrimental things to the world of dating/relationships is the loss of Romance or the loss of WORKING TO MAKE THE OTHER PERSON HAPPY ON PURPOSE is almost altogether nonexistent. I mean even the love songs are absent of the romance, the courting; the work that both men and women used to put in to make being in a relationship so incredible, so thought provoking, innocent (with a hint of physical excitement); the whole idea that this person, who they are, and the things they do for you; has you thinking about them all day long. I mean there is no real work anymore...there is no thoughtfulness or creativity, no respect, no foreplay (HA...another post LOL), nothing but self-gratification and heartache. Relationships have become so casual that one night stands are no longer looked at as a bad thing, but like depositing your check in the bank and no bills to pay! Look I'm not hating on you if that sort of thing works for you, but for the hopeless romantics like me out there, let's work to bring romance back into relationships and relearning how to be Gentlemen and Ladies.

Romance/Romance Gestures/Gentleman:

• Opening the doors for her...I mean even getting so serious that she can't open any door for herself.


• Buying her flowers...special occasions, first dates are nice for sending flowers, but sending them just because is even better.


• Buying a thinking of you card for her from time to time.


• Paying for the bill.


• Knocking on her door and meeting her father before you take her out on a date (I think this depends on your age or does it?)


• Planning a date and having it so well thought out that she doesn't have time to ask what's next.


• Walking behind her when she walks up the steps. (This an old school move....also I got reeducated on this from the movie What Love Is).


• Walking in front of her when she walks down the steps.


• Telling her she's beautiful.


• Learning what she likes, what her favorite things in life are.


• Giving her a tender kiss and being as sensual as possible when you do it.


• Cooking a nice breakfast or dinner for them.


• Have a warm bath ready for them, complete with roses in the water or their favorite flowers, and a glass of wine or kool aid LOL.

Romance/Romantic Gestures/Ladies:

• Being appreciative when your friend/man/boo/husband is being a gentleman or being romantic- (This is HUGE ladies. If you truly appreciate a romantic man this makes them enjoy doing these things for you and may even have them step up there game).


• Complimenting them (Men like compliments too)


• Cooking breakfast in bed and feeding them.


• Cooking their favorite dinner and letting them enjoy it in front of their favorite TV show, to a soft striptease (Married Couples Only LOL), a massage, or by candlelight.


• Planning a date that leaves them speechless.


• Letting them enjoy a day with the Fellas or their friends, and then coming home to a nice meal and another romantic/sensual surprise ;)


• Telling them what a great man they are (Everyone likes their ego-stroked from time to time, but if you're telling the truth it won't be hard for you to tell them how great they are.)


• Singing to them or playing romantic music in the background.


• Respecting yourselves and your bodies.


• Making them WORK FOR YOU...AND I MEAN ALL OF YOU! Make them work, let them chase you, and don't be easy. (You're not just romancing them, you're romancing yourself).

(Honestly ladies I don't know what else to say for you guys so maybe you can help me out. Ladies please tell me how women can be romantic towards your man).

Well I think I gave you guys something to work with. All I have to say is that we have to start thinking about others and their feelings. I know dating and relationships can bring anxiety, but with a little Romance and Respect we can begin to slowly be cured of our Dating PTSD...

All I have to say is that this day is not funny at all. I thought I could relive childhood moments of April Fools Day, but then someone pranked me with something that couldn't ever be funny and I about lost my mind. So I say to April Fools Day...go choke yourself badly!!!! Die and never be able to destroy the mindset of sane people ever again. You SICK BASTARD CALLED APRIL FOOLS!!! Who gave you a day? I mean isn't there more important things people could be doing on this day...like why couldn't it be "Be Kind To Your Big Brother Day" or "Treat Three of your friends to McDonald's Day" or "Free Full Body Massages given by Hot Women Day" No they picked April Fools Day for April and April Fools Day you are a sick, demented, butt hole whom I never want to see again.

I just remembered why I hate April Fools Day.