Why Cheat???
Earlier today I saw a man and woman arguing about his woman cheating on him and the brother looked hurt. (I was all in their business) but fellas why do u take someone else's woman and ladies why do u take another woman's man??? Let's Talk for real!!!!
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Maybe they weren't meant for each other.
I think ppl do that because they dont know who the really are they dont know what self worth is so they cant appreciate just one thing(person) and thats sad.
Because when people are not happy/satisfied with their life and or situation, they begin believe falsely that they will be happier with someone else and they go after other peoples spouses because the happiness they "THINK" they see or may get from them....not seeing the misery they cause others or the pain they bring to themselved. Its so not worth it.... Men/Women - If you feel you need to cheat, Be Single and Cheat on Yourself...at least your not hurting anyone!!!
I do believe that maybe some people aren't meant for each other, but should that be decided my the person who cheats with the person? Like people who PURPOSE in their hearts to take someone else's man or woman...that's just wrong or selfish. I also believe that there are some people who don't love themselves ok fine, but you go seek counseling, wisdom, prayer, not CHEAT!!! Am I delusional for feeling that way? That there are other alternatives? Do I live in a fairytale? Talk to me!
i think it's about power. not to mention a lack of respect. a lack of respect for the person you are "taking" from. and the power of knowing that you were able to "take" someone that is already with someone else. folks need to wake up and realize that the grass may look greener, softer, and well kept but once you step on it . . . OUCH!
i have no idea why those types of things happen....i am totally against that mess....stay committed to 1 person or stay single!
Thanks for commenting and d I agree stay single and cheat on yourself lol lmbo. But I guess M you are right some people are very narcissitic and enjoy the power they think they have, but you can't live your life hurting people. We have to stop hurting people! And cheating maybe fun for a time but think of the outcomes and the scars you cause to other people. Stop manipulating and stop taking what's not yours; even if you can.
J Lawd have mercy. For instance: how can a girl (won't say sista, cause there's no way you can be a sista and do this) how can a girl that claims to be your friend sleep with YOUR man???? Nope, didn't happen to me, but it happens. SKUNKEEEE!
i think j as a society now we have become numb to others feelings, sadly nobody cares anymore. society as a whole has a mind frame of me, myself and I....and your absolutely right its called being selfish. I find it all to be immature....and this time of your life (adulthood) you should know what you what in the oppoiste sex so i agree with Mr. W either be with 1 person or b single.....that's just my 2 cents lol
That's the Elder and the Social Worker spitting knowledge respectively
Ok, first, you can't TAKE someone away, that person goes willingly whether you heavily pursue them or not. So the question becomes why did they leave? not why were they taken? Did the grass look greener? Were they treated better? Was it for sex? Money? Who knows. What I do know is that so called "takers" display a certain disrespect by pursuing ... See Moresomeone who is already in a relationship to begin with. And if the other person left their last relationship under those circumstances, who's to say they woudn't do it again?
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