Sex, Love, and Lust: Same or Different???


Sex, Love, and Lust: Same or Different???

Are these three forces one and the same? Can you have love and sex without lust? Can you truly have great sex without love or lust in the equation? Which one of these emotions/actions/statements are the most powerful, the most needed, the most expected? Are they the same or entirely different?

The obvious answer would be no right? That Sex, Love, and Lust are three totally different words and come with their own unique characteristics, paradigms, ups, downs, and requirements. I think that in the hands of mortals they are quite dangerous and potentially destructive. In the hands of a vampire; well they may be mastered. (That was for all my fellow TruBlood/Twilight fans: June 13 and June 30). http://www.hbo.com/trueblood


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But with all seriousness, can we have an amazing romantic relationship with all or none of these emotions? Can a romantic relationship exist without love; without sex; without lust? Can you separate these three from one another or must we learn the appropriate measure to use each of these within our intimate relationships?

You be the judge…

jwriter
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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well to me when they are all put together yes they do all seem to mean the same. But i do know that u can turly love a person without the lust & sex. I've done it before. But yes so many do need to learn how to use each for what they are truly for. And that starts with the relationship that they have with GOD!

One of The Guys said...

Lust and love are two very different beings. Lust is about physical attraction and hormones. Love is about loyalty and tenderness, etc. When the two are combined, that's when the strongest bonds are formed, although both aren't necessary to have a lasting relationship.

Sex can play a big part in either.

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