Starting a new relationship can be wonderful! Starting a new relationship can be exciting and give you butterflies in your stomach. Starting a new relationship can also be frustrating and have you on edge.
I think the hardest part I've found in starting a new relationship is learning how the person operates. It can be burdensome to have to learn what makes a person tick especially if the person isn't open with you, themselves, and you have to spend the entire time doing guess work. I just wish that the person you were dating or in a relationship with came with an instruction manual.
I think that's why I made the decision to no longer be apart of drive by dating or dating just to be dating people. I want to date with a purpose and not have to spend time guessing what makes a person angry, what annoys them, when they need their space, when they are playing or when they are serious, what makes them do the things they do, and if they are interested in learning about you.
I think we should just tell people this once we reach a higher level in the relationship, but I guess that wouldn't be fun. LOL
Dating PTSD- (9/11/2008)
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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I was passing through and I found this post. I think that learning how a person operates is the best part of a relationship. It is a challenge, but that is what makes the challenge worth fighting for.
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