Genesis 1:26- "Let US make man in Our image, after Our likeness." Genesis 2:7- And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul."

Singleness vs. Marriage is an ongoing discussion; in the world, in society, and especially in the church. Many Christians struggle with the definition of singleness and the identity of singleness, in a world that often views singleness as a low status, and also in a society that has begun to recreate the purpose of marriage and singleness; to cohabitation and loneliness. The problem I have with it isn't society's view or even the Church's view, but my brother is the Child of God's view of singleness and then their view of getting marriage and being married.
I'm presenting to you the TOP THREE REASONS I believe I'm Single and hopefully you will discover the reasons you are still single or the reason you need to discover your singleness.

The top reason I'm still single is this: I've cheated on my spiritual relationship with the Lord with physical relationships with women! I'm not trying to sound super spiritual, but the truth shall set us free. Having sex outside of marriage is not in God's will and it only stands to solidify your position outside of the will of God. I've come to realize that our relationship with God will spill over into our relationship with a woman or with a man. Our relationship with God spills over into our friendships as well. If you are cheating on God with your bodies and making love with someone who isn't your husband and wife; you are separated from God, and your relationships will be that of separation and confusion. You wonder why you can't make it to the ALTAR? You can't stand before God's presence with the presence of SIN on you. If I was wondering why I'm still single, maybe I need to stop cheating on God.

The second reason I believe I'm still single is a poor perception on how to move from singleness to marriage. The thought belief is that you are ingrained with the ability to just know how to select a mate, date her, and then marry her when the time is right and the money is right. On the baseline there is only this perception that you date and you try to give you're best and then you get your reward of marriage. No one can really give a clear, definitive explanation on what courtship is, how to move from dating to engagement, and then from engagement to marriage. I'm still single because I really don't have a clear picture or I didn't...

The third and final reason I believe I'm still single is that I haven't spoke it into my life. God has given me the gift, He has given me the promise that I can have whatever my heart desires, and God has design it for me to possess the land. I believe that if I trust God and I believe that He will give me what I'm praying for I can have it. The timing is now and if I trust God at His word, I can have it.

This will be a short post because I am tired.

I have a headache, I'm tired from the stress from work,

and

I'm tired of all the surprises!!! Stop making it so I have to clean up after you!

Give me clear answers and give me a clear review of the case.

I am tired and I want to sleep!

The End

I was sitting on the toilet and it hit me like a ton of bricks. A lot of times we stay or I have stayed in bad relationships because I'm afraid to miss out on love or on that feeling of having someone to love me. I mean I feel like sometimes that I will miss having that companionship or that being in complete love; only to find myself in a relationship that isn't going anywhere or to be in a relationship that has only repressed me emotionally and regressed me romantically.

I want to get to a point that I'm not worrying whether I will ever be in love or be married. I want to get to a point that I'm not feeling so led to stay in an unhealthy relationship just to feel like I don't miss out or die! That is the honest answer. Some of us are so truly afraid to die and miss out on living the dream and so we stay in something that is deadly.

Please move away from staying in destructive relationships.

This world is in need of love. There just any other way to describe what else the world is lacking so greatly is love. Why is love so much of a challenge for us? I mean true, unconditional, powerful, and peace-making love. Why are we so afraid of loving one another? We forget about the brotherly love and we half-step giving romantic love and Agape love.

All I know is that peace is within our grasp if we just fulfill the need for love. We can find the great key to happiness and joy when we make the decision to love.

Just think about where you can love more or show love too. if you're in a relationship; think about how you can be more romantic and how you can be a blessing to your significant other. Think about someone you may need to forgive or someone who needs a kind word. Love your enemy and show them kindness that you know they aren't expecting.

We need Love!

I can't begin to describe why so many relationships are lacking and falling apart! I truly believe that we have limited ourselves from positive and creative expressions of love, romance, and pure tokens of appreciation! That's why I bring you this post: Love Without Limits!

Jean Grey and Franklin Richards are two omega level mutants with powerful mental capabilities. One with the power to control physical and mental constructs down to the atomic level and the other can literally shift the dimensions of reality and the time/space continuum! But their abilities had LIMITS placed on them and they weren't fully able to tap into their true potential because of the limits placed on them and the limits they placed on themselves!

It is the same for us in our relationships and our marriages! We limit the positive love we can show to the one we are committed to. We place no limits on how negative, hurtful, or deceitful we can be to one another! We don't limit how low we can be, but we limit loving unconditionally, being spontaneous, being creative in our romantic gestures, and just being appreciative.

From now on I say love without limits! Especially in your marriage you should love, honor, and cherish your treasure; treasure your soul mate, and don't be afraid to romance them.

Do an assessment of your relationship and see if you can improve your capacity to love your significant other. Plan a date, send some flowers, go for a one day trip to eat a nice restaurant, go on a wine tour, bring out a gift they gave you a fews years back and tell them why you appreciated it! Love them with everything.

Love without Limits!