She is clearly in love and doesn't even see it. She smiles when she talks to him, lying on the floor like a teenage girl in heat. She talks about him in every conversation and even has a twinkle in her eyes and it is unbelievable that she is so in love.

No one looks at me that way or hopes to marry me someday. It aint in me to be envious, but she's in love dedicated to him and i cant get nobody to even say yes.

lucky man.

I can't find fulfillment than the amount of it I have now. A relationship with Jesus Christ, Friendships, close family relationships, working a job I enjoy for the most part, my own place, and even intimate encounters of the romantic kind. I have these things and overall they make me happy, but an Emptiness always seems to find me.

In Sunday school we were discussing the need to be reassured by God and when are the times we need reassurance. I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation and we discussed not being where we want to be in life; at our age, in relationships, and even financially. It hit me hard because I definitely feel like I should be married and having a wonderful time with my wife; splitting the bills, the chores, family events, traveling, and above all guilt free sex sprinkled with after orgasmic intimacy. I want to be doing therapy, teaching marriage seminars, a booming radio/TV show with my Amongst Friends crew, and a strong relationship with the Lord. In the midst of all this wanting, this desire, I have emptiness.

The Emptiness comes when it wants to and leaves me swimming deep within the deep recesses of my mind. I drown in my conscious pain and suffocate in my subconscious darkness. I know that the wrongs in my life bring out the most of the emptiness' power, but utimately it comes right in the middle of my highest points.

I hate this emptiness and I want to stab at it like a festering wound.

Empty void, empty void, voidless emptiness.

Should you and your spouse perform oral sex on one another? Should you perform oral sex on your husband or wife if you don't like doing it?

The answer to the first question is a definite YES! You should perform oral sex on your spouse as often as you can, as often as they like it, and as often as you want to do it for them. If you enjoy doing it and receiving it then you will be fulfilled when you carry out this sexual act with all the love, adoration, and skill that you have within you.

Are there rules to this thing call oral sex of course: 1. Know your partner and know how they like it. 2. Do it with love and not with an attitude. 3. Hygiene is very important. 4. Do it with the mindset of bringing great pleasure to your spouse.

Again don't just save it for special occasions, don't withhold it to punish your spouse, and definitely never ever ever do it half-hearted or sadly; because that's not sexy or pleasurable at all.

Now the answer to the second question is a little more challenging, but it can be worked on through open communication, positive encouragement, and patience. Don't force someone to do things that they are uncomfortable doing. It will more than likely be very uncomfortable and not pleasurable for both individuals.

Talk to your spouse about why they don't want to perform oral sex and what would help them be more into it. Encourage them to try it in a positive manner, give them oral pleasure and not seek to be reimbursed right away, but discuss how it felt for them; if the taste is the problem, have your spouse try foods that will improve the taste of their seminal or vaginal fluids; and like I said be patient.

Please enjoy giving your spouse oral sex and have lots and lots of fun.

Should husbands and wives perform oral sex on one another if one spouse doesn't like performing?


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Unmet Needs equals Frustration is a chart that I use with my clients who are unable to express their frustration in a positive, healthy, and constructive matter. We develop a chart of all their needs, goals, and wants; write down what happens when those needs are not met, frustration/anger rating on a scale of one to ten, and then how those needs can be met.

After much practice and teaching some of my clients are able to express clearly what needs they want met and how they or another person can meet them. This is what we should all be able to do; express our needs in a positive way and to let ourselves, loved ones, and romantic interest know how they can meet our needs. No one is a mind reader and can't meet your needs if they don't know what they are or how to meet them.

We also need to remember that no one can meet every need every time and learn how to either find a healthy way to meet the need on our own or to be patient with the person to meet our need. Clear, concise, and positive communication is the best way to express need and the best way to make sure needs are met.

Remember meeting needs are important, but how you express your needs will determine how those needs will be met!

Go for it!

Go out and Get what belongs to you! Christ has fulfilled all the promises and all the scriptures and now YOUR Blessings, Your Dreams, Everything you Want is right there waiting for YOU to OBTAIN THEM!

Go and Get what BELONGS to you in God!

I love you and So does Christ Jesus.

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