Tonight on Amongst Friends the Online Radio Show for the Grown and Sexy, we were discussing the Sex Drive for the Man and when it DECLINES, and the conversation was HOT!!! It got me to thinking in the moments when I'm not in the mood; like I had a desire for it and then something happens or something is said and BAM I lose it! I hate when I lose it too because it just seems like it is not a happy place for either parties involved.
If so happen my future wife is reading this I'm hoping you gain some insight into what increases my sex drive and what hinders it or decreases it. In other words or in this context; what puts me in the mood and what takes me out of the mood.
When it comes to me and being in the mood it is 40 percent physical and 60% mental. I translate just about everything into rational thought, reasoning, mental creativity, fantasy, mental stimulation/gratification, and pleasure for both people. Yes most times all of this is going on in my head.
The physical is important too! If something doesn't feel good and my mind can't replace it with a rational thought or a mental stimulating/pleasurable feeling; I will more than likely get out of the mood.
I feel like I'm just rambling, but I really spend a lot of time inside my head. I'm always daydreaming, fantasizing, dreaming, creating, thinking, communicating, or something; so it shouldn't come as a surprise that getting me in the mood or taking me out of the mood involves my mind.
Most times I'm out if the communication is off or something bugs me out. Like if I'm taken out of my pleasure mode, I lose it completely.
I will have to talk more about this later. I'm sleepy and rambling on and on lol.
Just Not In the Mood
By JoeJust Not In the Mood
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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