I never thought that I would truly be at this place. I have been at the place of thinking "hey this is the woman I think I can married," but this time it is real. I know that within my heart, mind, and soul that I want to marry and take care of my future. I can't explain why I know that she is my future, but I just know. I know that and everything confirms it; from when I pray about it, the way my family, my friends treat her and us; her family, her friends treat me; and most of all she confirms it.
I know that last statement you might have asked what has she done to confirm it for you? My future doesn't do anything that confirms it for me; it is more than just doing, she supports, she builds, she encourages, she cooks, she loves me, etc; it is rather that her spirit; the woman that speaks with God, that is what confirms it for me.
Finding my future was not an easy thing and because of the struggle that I endured it has made me finding her, appreciate her all the more. The honest thing is this though, I did not search for her; I did not look for her, I literally was trying to just not get into a relationship anymore. The second I stopped worrying, I stopped complaining, I stopped fighting, I stopped crying; the second I just began to live my life that's when I found her.
Finding my future has really completed me and I'm not just saying cheesy movie line. It isn't like I wasn't a whole person, but I just feel like I am complete or that my completeness is enhanced because of my future.
Have you found her? Have you found your future?
Finding Future
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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