So I've recently discovered through some lines in a play that some men maybe created to be bad boyfriends, but great husbands. I've also discovered that this could be the reason why I've been so unsuccessful in relationships myself. I've had two solid relationships; where it was clearly established that I was their "boyfriend" and they were my "girlfriend". Four relationships where we have been friends for more than three years, there was a mutual attraction, but I wasn't the man they wanted "right now", or it was just left ambiguous. And countless dates that ended up being a waste of my time or theirs; it depends on whose perspective you're looking into. You maybe asking why I wrote this? It's simple...
I want to know if you believe that some people are born to be boyfriends and/or girlfriends and if others are born to be husbands/wives?
If this is true I wish someone would stamp that on our foreheads when we are first born. LOL
Dating PTSD (8/27/08)
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
1 comments:
I don't believe that people are meant to be boyfriends or husbands. I think that some people are good at one thing and bad at another. I think you are reading into it too hard.
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