So today I got a chance to see my family today. They're some of my college friends who have become my family. I have so much love for them. I got to see my nephew who has to be one of the coolest kids I've ever met...I laugh as I type this because he's just a baby, but I see that he's going to be cool like his parents.
I also got to see my sisters who always keep me laughing. It was so good to see them and just be in their company. I don't think they realize how much I care about them, but I know I want them to be in my life and I want them to be happy. Although one of them is trying to move away and I must not allow that lol.
My sister has a friend that is visiting her; I've met her before, but today I got to know her a little bit and she got to know a lot about me. (Mainly because she was asking me some pretty tough questions and didn't hold anything back lol). It was cool though I didn't mind answering them and I prefer for a person to just be who they are. Things that she were saying to me most men would have took offense to, but I didn't; only one thing that made me take a second look was when she said she didn't date Black men or dark-skinned men. Other than that I thought she was pretty cool and actually learned that she talked and had some interesting things to say. The last time I met her (during my early years in college) she didn't say more than two words to me. I don't know if it was because I was staring at her and it creeped her out LOL or if she just didn't know me, but whatever it was NOW she spoke and flashed that beautiful smile of hers. (I always tell my sister that almost every friend she hangs out with is beautiful/sexy). I've never met anyone who was so outspoken (not a bad thing) but it was like she didn't hold anything back. If she wanted to tell you something she just said it. Most would find it abrasive, but I found it to be refreshing and hilarious (but in small doses lol). She had an interesting view on dating (even comparing men/women compatibility to finding a good handbag or one that would compliment them).
We hung out in DC and I finally got to eat a steak with mashed potatoes. Man I've been craving steak and now I finally got one. It was so good. But I'm sitting in the house right now hungry and I might cook me something to eat before I go to bed.
So... I end this thinking about what the future holds. As I think about this year and really trying to stay in God's will, graduating in May, living on my own, re-entering the dating world (here we go again), and just enjoying life; I hope I don't lose the man that I've become and I become the man that God wants me to be.
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