Let me be clear brothers (White men, Black men, Asian men, Green men) I'm not hating on you if you got your woman wrapped around your fingers, but I have to ask ladies how do you live with yourselves; at least the ones who lower all of your standards to be with a man that does absolutely nothing, but brings fire/sparks to your lower region every time you two jump in the sheets.
I have had numerous conversations like this...well more like overheard women talking on the bus, train, mall, and anywhere women can congregate and discuss how horrible their men are, but how great they are in bed. Like I said I don't hate, but I have to be honest how do they get these women. I mean they get the bad women, who are really good, but just can't get the rest of their lives together; and they get the all around great women. I can't understand this like they must have gold in their pants because these jobless, abusive, homeless, drug addicted, bad hygiene, and men unwilling to commit past using you as a place to deposit sperm; they get the really great WOMEN!!! I can't understand it.
I mean these women work for the government making money, have their own houses, cars, in church or spiritual, but they have these men who (excuse me) are not good for anything but making their bodies scream in ecstasy; then they actively complain about it.
I'm just saying ladies improve your standards and try to respect yourselves. Hey I'm not saying you have to settle for the man who does everything right, but doesn't know what he's doing in the realm of...wait I'm not even going to go into that lol. Anyway all I'm saying that if you believe you are worth something, make a man work for you...all of you and don't settle. I know you've heard it all before, but please be more than a dump for some man's fertile excrement.
I just think a woman should be treated with respect, brought flowers from time to time, and that she gets a gentlemen every time they are with each other. Action, Adventure, and Fun is all important in a relationship too, but please don't settle ladies.
But if you are content with being a "Sex Buddy" then don't complain about it.
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Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
2 comments:
ok, ok posting in its correct place lol. You asked why do women complain about the jobless, homeless man? I think it is because it is easier to complain about it then leave and be alone. So many men and women wont allow themselves to enjoy their own company and feel that bad company or even having someone that is clearly using them is way better then being alone. I also think it has to do with low self esteem,and having the feeling that "I dont deserve any better" mentality. And sometimes we try to make ourselves feel better by downing someone else.
Good post I agree, sometimes (for whateever reason) it seems women, but also men to at times lower their standards. Why? I'm not sure! We will probably never know!
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