Why is it that we give so much to a person and will allow them not to give anything in return? I mean I understand that we shouldn't give to receive, but does that apply to relationships or is that just a part of the spirit of giving? I honestly think that it is unfair that you attempt to give your best to a person, treat them right, treat them with respect, love, care, and help them; they on the other hand both give you half of what they want to give you and could really care less how you feel.
The question is should you still give, despite not getting back all that you give? I really don't have a solid answer for this and this is why I put it into a relationships talks post, because I want to hear from you. I honestly don't want superficial answers either, forgive me for being demanding, but I'm really curious about this. I understand that you shouldn't be a good person or do the right thing, just to get it in return, but you do want to be with someone who will treat you right right? You want to be with someone who wants to give you the best, just as much as you want to give them the best. Maybe I'm being superficial in my thinking, but I have found it very exhausting to give a person romance, conversation, care, concern, love, thoughtfulness, encouragement, security, assurance, etc...And end up feeling unappreciated, unloved, not cared for, put down, etc.
Note there is a difference between someone not giving those things to you in a relationship and you being to insecure and too messed up to realize that they are giving you these things. There is a clear difference and I know the difference. Honestly I hope I'm not the only one who has been plagued by this question and hopefully I will get some of you to join in on the relationship talks.
joe sni
joe4christ.blogspot.com
Relationship Talks- Giving You The Best That I Got???
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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