Why do people say that they want their friends to be real? Do you know what you’re asking for? Do you know that you are unable to recognize the real (ness) in others because of the absence of real (ness) in you?! It kills me when people who are unable to accept truth, see the truth, admit fault, can't apologize for their wrongs, can't be the bigger person, do others wrong, talk bad about people, dog people out, and hate themselves; believe for one millisecond that they are real and everyone else lacks authentic capabilities!
Well I say no more!!! Stop putting people on this infinite level pedestal to exude the real (ness) you can't fathom and let your friends be who they are! Stop placing yourself as the poster child for honesty, truth, and fundamental transparency; and realize you're wearing a mask too, that you lie to protect your fragile pride that you get jealous, that you get envious, and that you have problems too! Get connected to people who will call you out on your mess and still love you even when you don't listen!
I don't know if you have friends that don't like to hear, see, or speak the truth, but I know you know someone who does!
Do You Have A Friend That Won't Listen To The Truth?
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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