My honest opinion is no. But I know that many people, especially a lot of women would argue that women can. So I guess it stands to reason that not only do I feel women can't have emotionless sex, but that no one can.
Sex encompasses so much more than physical contact. And most people have to be connected to some kind of emotion when engaging in sex. The biggest emotion that we often experience before sex and hopefully afterwards is happiness. Happiness = emotion. Often times people have angry sex. (angry equals emotion). Some people are sad with the sex they are having because it isn't that great. Sadness is sadly yes an emotion. I could go on and on, but I think that I have proven that neither men nor women can have emotionless sex.
I know you guys are reading this and laughing. So I'm sorry, but honestly I really don't think anyone should have pointless, emotionless, no strings attached sex. Call me traditional or a hopeless romantic, but I really believe that sex is way more involved. Sex invades our minds, hearts, and bodies. And I believe that for the most part women are more connected to their minds and emotions; and that most of us men just function on our pride and our desires. That is not to say we men are not smart, but sex for us is totally different. You can argue that point with me as well, but it is my opinion.
I also think women have done this whole I can have no strings attached casual sex because they want to battle with men, "anything a man can do a woman can do better," And honestly ladies you have proven your point. You can lay down with as many men and force yourself to believe that it meant nothing, but what have you truly gained. Does it make men look at you differently? And do you really walk away with nothing? Do you feel nothing? Are you really liberated because you can have casual sex?
Stop and think about it!
Can Women Have Emotionless Sex?
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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I say that all the time, calling it emotionless or saying there no strings attached doesn't change the fact that sex is an emotional thing. That is why people get addicted to it, it is because of how it makes them feel...lol... EMOTION....
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