In intimate relationships there are several things that couples eventually stop doing or they become mundane routines within the relationship that they no longer have impact. Finding time to go out on dates, kissing one another passionately, sex, wild and crazy sex, passionate sex, and even making love. Sometimes even creating a budget and paying the bills can start to feel like blah, blah, blah in a relationship. Why is that? Why do we get so comfortable in our relationships that we forget to keep the passion alive? I sometimes find myself asking these very questions in my own marriage. My wife and I are very much in love, but we both recognize that sometimes we have to work a little harder at showing it.
I want to address your mate or significant other feeling attractive and wanted by you and you feeling attractive and wanted by your significant other. The feeling of someone wanting you is nearly indescribable. You see the passion in their eyes when they look at you; the way they seem to undress you with those eyes sends shock waves down your spine and into your toes. They tell you how beautiful or how handsome you are and you feel the exact same way about them. I'm not really doing this justice in trying to describe the confidence and power you get when your spouse or lover looks at you and desire oozes from them. I'm not just talking about lust, but that desire to be around you, to compliment you, to love on you, and yes to rock your world lol. I don't think there is a person who may read this that doesn't want the person they are in relationship with not to want them or desire them.
So why do we stop exuding this passion for one another? Why do you find couples asking one another if they are attracted to one another. Let me stop here and point out that they are not asking for you to validate their outer beauty or physical looks, but they want you to affirm that you still have passion for them.
Tell how beautiful or amazing they are, how handsome he looks or how much you appreciate what he does for the family. Make them feel special or believe me someone else will.
Are You Still Attracted To Me?
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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