I have had the pleasure of having an interesting conversation with more than one woman on this subject. It seems to be a growing concern for a lot of single women out there. The questions they ask are: Why won't he marry me? How will I know he is ready? What can I do to get him to ask? These are amazing questions and hopefully I can provide some insight to your questions.
Let me start off by saying that every man is different and so I can't just generalize this based on my experience, but I will try to give theories as to why men won't pop the question to you lady. So let's start with the obvious: "Maybe he doesn't want to marry you because he only looks at you as a girlfriend or sex buddy." This is the obvious reason he has not asked you because you're not the one he wants to take that step with, but he also isn't ready to move on from what you guys have. So now the question is whether you're willing to stay around to see the outcome or if you're content with just being the girlfriend or the sex buddy.
Another reason could be that he is simply not ready to take that next step. Whatever the reason maybe for this phenomenon; forcing him, making hints, ultimatums, etc will not make him change his mind. A lot of women say that we have been together for two to three years...(Time is not a factor for most men. When a man purposes in his heart or knows that you are the one he wants to marry; he will not hesitate, he will plan, he will ask, and you will know.) So again time is not the deciding factor; it may be that they just need to learn something, financial reasons, ego dysfunctions, fear, etc. So give them time and space, he will definitely let you know he is ready to marry you.
If you like what you've read so far... take a look at part two in a few moments.
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Why Won't They Pop The Question?
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
1 comments:
This is indeed interesting. I have heard that before: When a man knows that he wants to marry you, he will not hesitate. But I've also heard that same logic with initial attraction. When a man is interested in you, you will know without a doubt.
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