I sit here in my car puzzled by the notion that people can say they love you and yet hurt you deeply! I mean beyond natural hurt that comes because we are imperfect, but I mean intentional, relentless, and uncaring hurt that people bring to you. They are so hateful and just seem to take pleasure in seeing you in pain!
Even worse are the more subtle people who smile in your face! They are very crafty and hurt you in small doses! They don't do well when confronted of their wrong or they flip the script and try to make you feel like you deserve what they have done to you! I feel that they are the true authors of cruelty and manipulation and they do their dirt all in the name of love!
At first I used to have such anger towards those who are like this, but now I pity them. I feel sorry that the only way they can feel better about their lives is to make someone else feel miserable.
The saddest part about it all is that there is one way to cure it and that's to love them and to forgive them!
In the meantime keep your kind of love away from me and the ones I love!
Just Keep Your Love Away
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
2 comments:
Wow! I love that! I write a lot of lost love poems and stories on my blog (http://raininginoctober.blogspot.com/) and that just gave me great insight for a new poem! Your Great! keep up the good work!
Oh, by the way, I found this blog because I'm a Christian also!
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