I'm so sick of exes!
Is there not a place that you can send the mean, evil, nasty, and backstabbing exes? I wish there was a world to put them in and only take them out when they are fully repented of their wrongs and the way they treat people. I would understand if an ex is upset with their old significant other if they did them wrong, but how do they manage to treat an ex wrong who hasn't wronged them? I'm so very confused by this.
I truly just wish that all of their negativity, hurtful words, hurtful actions, extra behaviors, and what not can become nonexistent. I don't want them gone forever because I guess people care about them, but just to send them to "How to be a Good Ex" boot camp or something.
The funny thing is I'm friends with all my exes, but this one ex is truly making it difficult for me not to be come a hateful, swear word spitting, ring your neck type of person. *he takes a deep breath and refrains from breaking the computer.* All I want is to no longer be punished for finally loving me and be able to heal from the fact that I lost a friend and that I lost "partially" some of our mutual friends on some levels.
It is never easy to love someone who hates or mistreats you, but always easy to simply hate them. I want to take the easy way out, but I must remain on the difficult path. I absolutely want to despise this person and wish evil and harm on them, but I realize that if I dig one ditch I better dig two and that second one will be my own.
Forgiveness is the key and realizing that you can't live in the world where exes don't exist; only if you continue to jump in and out of relationships.
The World Where Exes Don't Exist.
By JoeThe World Where Exes Don't Exist.
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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