For those who are trying to navigate Dating:
Three things to keep in perspective while Dating:
1. Set reasonable expectations and don't compromise. You can readjust
or redevelop expectations, but don't compromise them. The second you
compromise just to keep from being alone, you have set yourself up to be
disappointed.
2. Remember no one owes you anything! Stop going into dating relationships
believing that someone is supposed to love you, or fall for you this
way, or do for you that way. Dating and learning someone is a process
and it is different for everyone. No one can be what your last person
was to you and they shouldn't ever have to pay for the mistakes of
others. You are how you think and feel. You behave based on the
perception you have.
3. Have Fun!!! I say this over and over
again to people I work with who are trying to navigate relationships. We
enter dating relationships and we jump right into "playing marriage"
When Dating, you should really enjoy the freedom that comes with dating.
Embrace not having to plan your future, manage finances together, and
truly enjoy getting to know each other. It is in fun that people are
less superficial and more truthful. You can learn a lot about a person
who is not trying to "Show you the best version of them."
#Dating #relationships #reasonableexpectations
Three Things to Keep In Perspective When Dating!
By JoeThree Things to Keep In Perspective When Dating!
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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