Is it true what they say, "what you won't do someone else will?" I believe that, once again this statement is another excuse for people to step out on the relationship when things get rocky. On the other side of the coin though, it is very true that there is someone who is willing to communicate better than you do with your spouse, who will spend that quality time with your man or your woman than you won't, hold them through the night, someone who will build them up if you won't, care for them when you won't, love them if you won't, compliment them when you won't, freakier than you, and do all the things you won't do!!!! So maybe you should really think about that before you lose them to the one that will.
jwriter
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What You Won't Do Someone Else Will
By JoeWhat You Won't Do Someone Else Will
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
1 comments:
great point joewriter. I also think there has to be a level of understanding within the relationship. I absolutely agree that "if you don't, someone else will" theory, but I think it is reasonable to be patient and openly honest about your needs in a relationship. Meaning say exactly what you want, need, how you need it, when, why etc. This will help the other person (if they are willing) work on what they must do to please their "boo". Now if they know and are not willing, then there that is where the problems begin and the saying above kicks in to play.
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