I truly believe why we don't have healthy, amazing, and functional relationships stands on this principle: We don't make healthy decisions. We spend so much time trying to meet our own selfish needs and desires; we forget that when we enter into a relationship with someone else that they are a living, breathing, human being with feelings and needs too.
I think that the ones who are victims to cheating share some of the blame. I believe if you stop choosing the cheaters, than you'll stop the cycle of cheating in your life and eventually everyone will catch on and cheaters will stop prospering. Cheaters tell or show you who they really are, but you're so attracted or so in love, that you stay and they keep cheating. Why not choose healthy and choose someone who will not cheat on you?
I honestly believe that we have the power to save relationships and we can set worldwide standards if we decide to choose right and not what is wrong. Don't be sad over being cheated on or hurt if you continue to choose, date, or remain with a cheater. Listen dig deeper than just physical needs and desires and look at how the person will treat you and how they will get their own needs met. If someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM (Medea).
Just make better choices.
Just Make Better Decisions
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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