You knew yes you always knew they were a cheater. Hell every single one of us knew that they would cheat on us or better yet they would break our heart. What, did we forget that human beings have the propensity and the audacity to treat one another like the scum of the earth? I'm not angry or bitter; I'm presenting another point of view so to speak or if you will. We knew they would hurt us, but we chose to stay because of some sick, moral, and idealistic viewpoint that we could save them, we could change them, and that with enough love and support we could make them love us.
Clearly we were wrong. Like I said we knew from the start, but it is some unconscious motivation that attracts us to things that hurt. I have no idea why or maybe I just don't want to be caught in a void less black hole of self-pity. So I say we take the bullet and we pick up the pieces of our fragile hearts and say yes I knew what you were; I knew what you were and I took the risk to love you. At the end of the day I knew what you were capable of and I convinced myself that I could be the one to stop you in your tracks. I was the game changer and you were going to turn in your card.
No even though we knew they still made a choice. Free will extends to your pants my friends or skirts, or whatever the hell you were wearing the day you decided to cheat. Maybe you didn't cheat, but you held on to me until you were finished; my heart still broke either way.
We knew and we loved it.
jspotwriter
We May Be The Blame for Cheaters
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
1 comments:
cheaters are to blame for cheating not the victims. We are not to blame whether we knew it or not. What you said was crazy.
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