I haven't blogged in a while, but I've been wondering why text messaging is the new way to express love, break-up, or whatever. I know it's the age of technology, and texting, emails, and video conversations are the upgrades to face to face encounters and letters, but come on people what about that intimate contact with a person.
I mean I guess its OK to express love through text, but not to break up with a person. And I feel that it is only OK to express love through texting only if you can also express it face to face.
Then again maybe I'm wrong and old fashion, but I think that the Internet and phones have made people even worse at communicating, which mainly consists of listening and reading nonverbal messages (and also a little talking LOL-YEAH RIGHT LOL).
I mean I love text messaging, but I'm that old-fashioned romantic. I like to express love to my woman's face. I mean during the day (You're beautiful or I Love You Text) is OK to keep the fire burning and keeping you on her mind (Men if you don't know anything about this or how to do this without being annoying LEARN it might keep the CLEAN UP man out of your woman's house...).
So I say to all you Valentine-going-on-dates-people-who-are-in-love-or-whatever to make sure you keep your face to face communication/love expression skills up to par, text/email when necessary (especially if you're in a long distance relationship), and please have the courage to break up with a person to their face and not over a text, email, or when they are at work thinking about you...
Love Rain fall down on me
Is Text Messaging the New Love Connection???
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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