Foreplay Tips for the Married Couples

Foreplay is what ignites the fire ladies and gentlemen or rather Husbands and Wives.

On average it takes a man 7 minutes to reach orgasm and it takes a woman about 20 minutes to reach orgasm. That means some extra steps have to be taken to get you both to a good place.

So everyone if you want to make sex important in your marriage again... Stop being selfish! It is OK to please one another. And while quickies can be awesome, it is not always a good thing for you to just jump into it. It is OK to TAKE YOUR TIME and LIGHT ONE ANOTHER'S FIRE.

Just read, "21 minutes of foreplay greatly increases the odds of women having an orgasm," I'm just saying men we like orgasms so why not help our wives enjoy them as well.

It is important that you understand married couples, that sex isn't always just going to happen. You can't always hope for it, you can't always schedule it, and there is no such thing as an ideal sex life. This is what you have, an opportunity to make your sex life the BEST it can be; do you want it? Closed mouths don't get fed. Communicate!

Joe's 3 Foreplay Suggestions:

1.) Sensation Game- Take turns touching one another with different things: hands, feathers, ice, lips, satin cloths, warming oil, etc. Describe the different sensations to your spouse. Avoid touching the genital areas, or sexual organs to help build anticipation. Want to get each other really turned on? Take turns Blindfolding one another and describe what you feel.

2.) Body Art- Go to a classy or tasteful adult store or I think you can find body paint in your local store in the aisle with the lube, oils, etc.; pick up some body paint. Of course you can also buy it online. Take time to paint one another, let your spouse's body become your canvass. Make them beautiful while sensually touching them, kissing them, and massaging them. Then once you've are all hot and painted, get down, go clean up, and get down again. If you want to spice it up you can get edible paint or paint each other with chocolate body paint.

3.) Sex Stories- Tell each other a story of how you would like to make love to one another or the things that you know really turn one another on. Or you can read written sex stories to one another until you are both are ready to bring the stories to life.

Even if you don't get this deep into the foreplay, just take some time to get to know you spouse's body and make them feel good. Light a fire in them and make them want you.
Please don't let sex become a low priority in your marriage and definitely don't let foreplay become a lost art.

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Enjoy the Married Life Sex