I need to write more and I never have the opportunity to do it as much because my life is so very hectic at times. I really want to become a better writer, have lots of people read and follow my blog, inspire people, encourage relationships, and bring hope. I even someday hope to maybe even make a career out of writing...hopefully.
I do believe that one of the things that the life of relationships is missing is romance. Romance is the act of courting or wooing some one you adore. I don't think that we have enough romance going around. It doesn't always have to be expensive, elaborate, or fanciful all the time, but should always include thoughtfulness, passion, and selflessness. The act of being romantic is a selfless act or that you're doing this out of a loving desire to do something nice for the one you love, to help strengthen your relationship. A lot of times people think being romantic should be something done just to get something out of it. While there are benefits to showering your lover with gifts, poems, pampering, etc; I think romance and romantic gestures are more powerful when the motivation is from the heart.
I love you so much I want to romance you. I want you to feel special in some way, to know that I think of you as beautiful or handsome, outstanding, lovely, sexy, and I want to do that by giving you something that is completely pure, from my heart, and I hope it makes you feel the way that I intend for it to make you feel. I want you to feel love, feel loved, and that you are very special to me.
I have to admit that I have become less romantic lately and it has been hard for me to get my footing back. I am not absence to the idea of romance, but I do know that I'm not my old self. I want to get back to where I was, it was so natural, so fluid; it was second nature for me to be romantic. It isn't like I'm not romantic, but I know I'm not one hundred percent. This isn't fair to my wife and I do have this internal battle within myself because I know in this aspect of our life together I'm struggling.
I guess what I am saying is this, don't let romance die in your relationship! Romance can be so powerful and just for your lover to know that you're thinking of them and not just physically, but emotionally, and mentally. Romance if done correctly can effect all dynamics of the person being. Let the romance flow and let it flow freely.
Get Back To Romance
By JoeGet Back To Romance
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
1 comments:
Romance is such a dead language. It is not as powerful or effective as it once was.
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