Please don’t lie and make me think you want to be with me. It really is simple, you want to be with me then your actions and your words will prove it, and if you don’t then don’t be. Don’t draw me on a string or feed me the emotional bull crap; the things you think I want to hear; only to have me left wondering whether you truly care. You can keep the words, you can keep the gifts; you can keep it all to yourself. I don’t have the time or the energy for you to waste it with empty promises, broken records, and the same old songs.
Don’t do me any favors ok. You are not the gift of the Holy Spirit, nor eternal blessings from on high. We have a great time and yes you make me happy, but some days the things you say don’t line up with how you act, how you treat me, the inflection in your voice; you don’t look at me the same, we argue over little things more, you don’t touch me, you don’t hold me; the temperature is hot, but lately you’ve been cold; you are so distance, and I’m tired of being present and feeling all alone.
Don’t stay because of the children.
Don’t stay because you’re afraid I won’t find anyone else.
Don’t stay with me to protect me from being hurt.
Don’t pretend to care, knowing your heart or your lust lies with someone else.
I rather you hurt me now before more time is wasted. You know you don’t want to be with me anymore so why do you stay? Why do you endure? Why do you torture yourself knowing you don’t want to be with me? Why do you continue to say yes when really you’re screaming no? Just say what you mean and do what you feel.
Please don’t do me any favors. Keep your lies to yourself you emotionless, narcissistic, arrogant, selfish, self-indulgent, plagiaristic, sociopathic, incredulous, opportunistic, and lying sack of manipulation.
Just do what you say and say what you mean.
If you don’t want to be with me then leave.
Just Say What You Mean
Joseph is a Licensed Graduate Social Worker in the Washington, DC area. Joseph is the author of the forthcoming book “Love Me Right or Not at All”, A Quick Guide to Loving Yourself and Others the Healthy Way. This book seeks to assist everyone who reads it to love with balance and give love to the right people. Joseph is striving to become an expert in the practice of relationship empowerment. He strives to build healthy, powerful, and well-balanced relationships in the lives of everyone who seeks after the knowledge, values, and skills Joseph has honed over the last ten years. Joseph is an aspiring Marriage and Family Therapist, but to also travel around the nation and hopefully the world, to spread the message that relationships can be simple, yet amazing if you put in the work. Relationships are vital to the human experience and often shape our mindsets, our personalities, and our environments. Knowing this, Joseph works to encourage not only those who believe in his skills, but also works passionately to build his knowledge and skills in the area of relationships to present the best of who he is both personally and professionally.
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